Tuesday, February 8, 2022

How to choose... HER

My father always told me: "If you are dating a girl, go to her house on saturday morning. If by 9:00 am it doesn't smell like either breakfast or cleaning products, don't wife her."?

What are her hobbies, passions? Does she have any depth? A woman should be multi-dimensional.
A woman should be nurturing, loving, caring, sensitive, and of course feminine.

How is she with her family? Her mom and dad? Does her father have masculin traits? How is her mother treating her father?
Her family dynamics.

Is she going to be a good mother? Will she prioritize the relationship and children over her wants?

What are her political views? What does she think of the age and income gap?
What does she think about harassment?
How does she feel about masculinity? Men in general?
Does she see man as oppressors, predators? Or does she see them as equal human beings?

Ask her how she pictures herself when she gets married? What does she pictures herself as?
What would she teach her kids?

Is she on social media? How many social media sites is she on?

Make sure she is not looking to upgrade all the time to a new man!!!! A lot of women do this!

Is she selfish? Does she go out of her way to make you happy?
Does she feel like a princess? DOes she make you feel below her? Does she always make you feel like you need to work hard to get to her (nose)?
Or does she also look out for your own needs?
(it's about the little things she does for you: cook you a meal, buy you little gifts, gives you unexpected attention, etc. Does she want to make you happy all the time!!!!????).

Watch out for excessive use of drugs, alcohol and marijuana? Everything should be in moderation!

Financial health!
Does she always ask you for money? Does she have a lot of credit card debt? Student loan debt?

Can she keep a job? Does she have a sense of responsibility? Does she finish what she starts?

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No tattoos. No piercings except ears. No smoking. Doesn't drink on a daily basis. No recreational drug use. No credit card debt. No crazy ex bfs. No ex gfs whatsoever. No children out of wedlock. Has mostly female friends. No liberal arts degree. Not a feminist.?

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